3 Common Mistakes People Makes When Choosing A Friend
It's certain that nowadays, everybody wants to go with the trendy guys and forego the gentle ones but the question is, why is that decision necessary and why can't we consider what those people can offer in our lives. It is natural to feel proud of oneself but, don't make that a pride. Many people makes the mistake of thinking that they are better than the others and so shouldn't take them as friends, but unfortunately that's not how the story goes, because how you started might not be able to guarantee a happy ending. If there is something you must know, it is learning to accept others.
Before choosing your friends, you ought to know a lot about them, or at least someone you can call an acquaintance. Many don't have enough confident in who they are and in their ability and always feel out of the world. So the only ones they can trust are people who they have known for a longer period. But as always, time changes People, even your homies can turn to be your enemies. Associate yourself with people of good quality, because it is better to be alone than in a bad company. But if you must keep friends, consider these;
In my own definition, they are 4 fundamental pillars of friendship which are acceptance, trust, respect and support. these must be in every relationship to form a stronger bond. First of all, choose friends who exhibit good characters. choose your friends based on their values and not their status in the society.
. secondly, choose friends who are dependable. choose friends who will stand by and guide you when you need it.
. finally, choose people who give wise counsel, friends who can support you physically, morally, mentally and emotionally.
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